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What to Expect in Therapy
If you’re new to therapy or curious about how it actually helps or what to expect, this article is meant to offer some clarity about the kinds of experiences people commonly have when they begin therapy. At the same time, it’s important to say from the outset that everyone’s process looks a little different. Therapy is not linear, and there isn’t one “right” way to move through it—but there are some very common patterns that can help you understand what you might notice along

Shezlina Haji
May 12


How to Choose the Right Therapist: Why Fit Matters More Than You Think
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, especially when you are already navigating difficult emotions or life circumstances. It is tempting to focus on credentials, availability, or cost alone, but research consistently shows that one of the most important factors in therapy effectiveness is the quality of the relationship between therapist and client. This is often referred to as the “therapeutic alliance,” and it has been found to be one of the strongest predicto

Shezlina Haji
Apr 28


Why Do People Go to Therapy?
When people think about therapy, they imagine someone going through a major crisis, trauma, or mental health emergency. This is a common misconception. While therapy absolutely supports people through difficult life events, this is only one reason people seek therapy. In reality, therapy is for anyone who wants to better understand themselves, improve relationships, manage stress, and navigate daily life challenges with greater clarity and confidence. At Embrace Life Psyc

Shezlina Haji
Mar 15


New Year, Same Me
Your Friendly Neighbourhood Therapist’s Guide to Abolishing New Year’s Resolutions. Happy 2024! Another year behind us. One of the most commonly asked questions at this time of the year is “What is your New Year’s resolution?” A New Years’ resolution is meant to signify a fresh start with a new drive to achieve a certain goal or make meaningful change. Resolutions can help to set the intention for the year ahead and encourage reflection of one’s purpose in life. However, it c

Shezlina Haji
Jan 5, 2024


Attachment-Informed Therapy
It is my belief that the greatest gift of humankind is being able to creates bonds. There is no greater joy than the joy you feel when you are deeply connected to another person. And, in the same vein, there is no greater pain than the pain of feeling disconnected from an important figure in your life. As I have supported people in their pain I have found that the wounds that cut the deepest and take the longest to heal are those formed by attachment injuries, or injuries by

Shezlina Haji
Dec 4, 2023
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