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What to Expect in Therapy
If you’re new to therapy or curious about how it actually helps or what to expect, this article is meant to offer some clarity about the kinds of experiences people commonly have when they begin therapy. At the same time, it’s important to say from the outset that everyone’s process looks a little different. Therapy is not linear, and there isn’t one “right” way to move through it—but there are some very common patterns that can help you understand what you might notice along
Shezlina Haji
May 12


How to Choose the Right Therapist: Why Fit Matters More Than You Think
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, especially when you are already navigating difficult emotions or life circumstances. It is tempting to focus on credentials, availability, or cost alone, but research consistently shows that one of the most important factors in therapy effectiveness is the quality of the relationship between therapist and client. This is often referred to as the “therapeutic alliance,” and it has been found to be one of the strongest predicto
Shezlina Haji
Apr 28


Why Do People Go to Therapy?
When people think about therapy, they imagine someone going through a major crisis, trauma, or mental health emergency. This is a common misconception. While therapy absolutely supports people through difficult life events, this is only one reason people seek therapy. In reality, therapy is for anyone who wants to better understand themselves, improve relationships, manage stress, and navigate daily life challenges with greater clarity and confidence. At Embrace Life Psyc
Shezlina Haji
Mar 15


New Year, Same Me
Your Friendly Neighbourhood Therapist’s Guide to Abolishing New Year’s Resolutions. Happy 2024! Another year behind us. One of the most commonly asked questions at this time of the year is “What is your New Year’s resolution?” A New Years’ resolution is meant to signify a fresh start with a new drive to achieve a certain goal or make meaningful change. Resolutions can help to set the intention for the year ahead and encourage reflection of one’s purpose in life. However, it c
Shezlina Haji
Jan 5, 2024
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