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Navigating Attachment Trauma in Relationships
When one or both partners in a relationship carry a history of attachment trauma, everyday interactions can sometimes feel like emotional minefields. Past wounds—whether from neglect, loss, abuse, or inconsistent caregiving—can resurface in the form of heightened sensitivity, withdrawal, or conflict. What begins as a small disagreement can quickly escalate, not because of the present moment alone, but because it touches on deep, unhealed hurts.  In my work with couples, I he
Shezlina Haji
2 days ago2 min read
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Presents to Presence
It’s that time of the year again. The city is covered in hues of red and pink and wall to wall chocolates as we prepare for Valentine’s...
Shezlina Haji
Feb 8, 20242 min read
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New Year, Same Me
Your Friendly Neighbourhood Therapist’s Guide to Abolishing New Year’s Resolutions. Happy 2024! Another year behind us. One of the most...
Shezlina Haji
Jan 5, 20242 min read
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Attachment-Informed Therapy
It is my belief that the greatest gift of humankind is being able to creates bonds. There is no greater joy than the joy you feel when...
Shezlina Haji
Dec 4, 20232 min read
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