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"Why Is It So Hard to Set Boundaries?"
In many ways, boundaries are the foundation of emotional safety. They help define what feels acceptable, respectful, and comfortable in our relationships, workplaces, and everyday lives. Yet despite how important boundaries are, many people have a hard time setting them. Why? Two of the biggest reasons are fear and guilt. Whether it’s saying no to extra responsibilities, asking for personal space, speaking up in a relationship, or advocating for your needs at work, setting bo

Shezlina Haji
May 28


Understanding Anxiety: Coping Strategies for Anxiety
Three-Part Series: Part 3: Coping Strategies for Anxiety - Practical Ways to Calm Your Mind Anxiety can feel overwhelming, especially when it begins to affect your daily life, relationships, and overall well-being. Many people experience anxiety as racing thoughts, physical symptoms such as a pounding heart or shortness of breath, or a persistent sense of worry that is difficult to turn off. In the first article in this series, What Is Anxiety and Why Do We Feel It, we explor

Shezlina Haji
Apr 1


Understanding Anxiety: How Therapy Can Help
Three-Part Series: Part 2: How Therapy Helps With Anxiety Anxiety can feel overwhelming, confusing, and exhausting. Many people who experience anxiety find themselves caught in cycles of persistent worry, intense physical symptoms, or fear about situations that once felt manageable. If you live with symptoms of anxiety, you may already know how much it can affect your daily life, relationships, and overall well-being. In the first article in this series, What Is Anxiety and W

Shezlina Haji
Mar 25


Understanding Anxiety: What is Anxiety?
Three-Part Series: Part 1: What Is Anxiety? Understanding the Symptoms, Causes, and Why We Feel Anxious Anxiety is one of the most common mental health concerns people experience. Many individuals struggle with racing thoughts, persistent worry, or uncomfortable physical sensations that seem to appear suddenly. If you have ever wondered why do I feel anxious, you are not alone. Experiencing anxiety is a very human response that affects people across cultures, ages, and life c

Shezlina Haji
Mar 20


Why Do People Go to Therapy?
When people think about therapy, they imagine someone going through a major crisis, trauma, or mental health emergency. This is a common misconception. While therapy absolutely supports people through difficult life events, this is only one reason people seek therapy. In reality, therapy is for anyone who wants to better understand themselves, improve relationships, manage stress, and navigate daily life challenges with greater clarity and confidence. At Embrace Life Psyc

Shezlina Haji
Mar 15


Attachment-Informed Therapy
It is my belief that the greatest gift of humankind is being able to creates bonds. There is no greater joy than the joy you feel when you are deeply connected to another person. And, in the same vein, there is no greater pain than the pain of feeling disconnected from an important figure in your life. As I have supported people in their pain I have found that the wounds that cut the deepest and take the longest to heal are those formed by attachment injuries, or injuries by

Shezlina Haji
Dec 4, 2023


Anger
Anger’s got a bad rep. It’s an emotion not a lot of people like to admit they feel. I mean, it makes sense. Anger often brings out the worst parts of us and pushes people away. It can come out as irritability, annoyance or even rage. Very few people can say that they had a pleasant experience with someone that was expressing their anger at them. Yet, it is an essential emotion like all the rest. It is valid like all other emotions are valid, and it has a purpose like all othe

Shezlina Haji
Aug 8, 2023
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